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what is fi yu caan' be un fi yu
I first heard this saying, encouraging or depressing according to your mood at the time, from Stafford Isaac Henry, 'Zacky', then at K.C., more than fifty years ago.
(what is 'for you' can't be 'not for you' - that is to say -
what is supposed to happen to you cannot not happen to you)
or perhaps - 'there is no armour against fate'! (James Shirley, 17th century)